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Fiction

People Pleaser, Bryony Gordon

Olivia Greenwood has spent her entire life trying to make everyone else happy – often at the expense of herself. Whether it’s saying yes when she really means no or constantly trying to keep the peace with her family, Olivia is stuck in a cycle of people pleasing. At home, while her husband focuses on his new love for fitness, she’s left juggling everything else. Work offers no escape either, as her long-promised (and well deserved) promotion is handed to someone else.

One Friday night, whilst at work drinks. Olivia meets Rose and everything changes – from that moment she realises she is completely out of f*cks.
I’m a huge fan of Bryony’s and, and as a fellow people pleaser, I was instantly drawn to this book. Right from the very beginning it resonated deeply and despite it being a work of fiction, it felt like having an epiphany reading it.

As always Bryony tackles difficult subjects with honesty and humour. Her writing is sharp and witty, yet also deeply reflective, encouraging you to pause and think about your own habits and boundaries.

I really liked the character of Olivia. I think many readers will see parts of themselves in her.

Overall, a work of fiction which will leave you feeling empowered. 5 stars.

With thanks to NetGalley and Penguin for the ARC in exchange for an honest review. People Pleaser is out today!

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Biography Non Fiction Self help

Mad Woman, Bryony Gordon

Ten years after the release of her debut book, mental health advocate Bryony Gordon’s continues to offer us a raw and unfiltered glimpse into her ongoing battles with mental illness, in her latest book ‘Mad Woman’.

In this unique blend of autobiography and self-help, Bryony delves into her recent experiences of menopause, binge eating and the continuous battle she faces with OCD, personified as the notorious Jareth the Goblin King. Through her candid storytelling, she invites us as readers to emphasise with the challenges she faces each day as someone living with mental health illnesses including her recovery from alcoholism – has she broken her sobriety by taking cough medicine?

In addition to sharing the experiences she faced throughout the years of the pandemic, Bryony also reflects on many broader societal issues, including the dismissal of women’s health concerns, and damaging assumptions about body weight and fitness. Most groundbreakingly she reflects on what she has learnt about mental health illnesses throughout her journey – perhaps we aren’t the problem but existing in a world where we are constantly in a state of perma-crisis is, offering a poignant realisation that perhaps our brains are simply trying to keep us safe (the unveil of which is emotional).

What sets Bryony apart from other mental health advocates is that she tackles difficult subjects and infuses her narrative with a touch of humility and wit. Through moments of raw honesty and humour, she takes readers on an emotional rollercoaster, offering hope and most importantly making them feel less alone and united in mental illness struggles.

Raw, honest and hilarious, Bryony is the mental health bestie we all need. 5 stars.